I am almost certain am being cheated on!


Last Sunday I received a call from a male friend ,he was angry and agitated. He believes his girlfriend cheated but he has no concrete evidence. He did not catch her in the act but he is ALMOST certain she cheated.  Ha... talk of a sticky situation to be in?

If someone cheated on you or you suspect they did but you have no proof. They deny and you insist they are lying. Exactly what do you expect to feel if you found out they did . The fact that you suspect and even feel they did in my opinion may not actually be the big deal. Lets assume they deny and you have no proof but your gut tells you they did.The big deal is can you live with that feeling . That feeling of maybe he or she is laughing behind your back , of how they got away with it. Plus do you want to  always  look over your shoulder all the time. Do you go with your gut and logic or the incredible story that you are being given . You have no idea whether its true or not.

My advice: If you can accept either side of the story and by accepting I mean being truly on board. Let go the what if situation and make your decision. Believe them, not partly but accept their truth as the truth no buts. Next time they come home very late and say they were out with friends ,you will not start panicking, and go wild with thoughts of "they are doing it again behind your back". You will  stay yet at the back of your mind ,you never let it go.  Only stay if you can completely let it go .Don"t stay in waiting , of the day they shall screw it up all over again. Waiting to catch them for real.

Two go with your gut and reasoning and leave. Which ever you choose do it from one place, don"t do it with so many buts and whats if?  Major factor at play here , He loves this gal. Its all easier said than done but you must make a decision. Most important be honest with yourself. You matter most here. What can you live with?